你的感情经得起考验吗？

你的感情经得起考验吗？

How strong is your love?

My boyfriend gave me a call this evening, attempted to mutter out some unpleasant news.

Apparently, his company requests him to work in Singapore this coming month end and the period might last 3-4 months. He kept quiet after telling me the whole thing. I guess he was concerned about my feelings. The last time he left for Singapore in July 2006 for 6 months, I had been strong. As a matter of fact, I have been more independent then.

On second thought, was he feeling insecure about our relationship instead? There has been a couple of breakups among our acquaintance lately. These indicate that, even the slightest period of time can jeopardize a relationship, especially long distance relationship.

The fact is that the better you get to know each other, the more [fragile|solid] your relationship can be. Well, the truth is, we are all standing on the fence, it can be either way. Despite love for each other, a solid relationship includes your acceptance of his EVERYTHING including financial status, family background, social circle, habits and life philosophy etc.

Haven’t you heard of the common phrase ‘因了解而分手’?

I think tonight will be a tough night for him as he has decisions to make.

What about me? Well, I can’t predict tomorrow and I can’t make his life miserable as well. I only know that for time being, I have faith in our relationship. If we were not meant to be, holding on to each other wouldn’t do any good either.

听起来很潇洒吧？我是真的那么想。。。

So now, I need to consider about my Krabi trip in Feb ‘07 and Latin Silver classes… ’sigh’